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Dear (Arizona),

I totally understand girl. My life sounds ok but there is a lot of unsecurity too. Like this morning when I sent Emma to school...she cried and begged me to stay with her...and then the teacher dragged her into the class. You know how i feel right? I started to think that I shouldn't work and put her in nursery for 10 hours everyday.

But if I stay with her for longer hours, Emma probably will not stand me either since I'll be bad-tempered.

And I'm always thinking that since our living quality is not good in Singapore, I really should find my way back to Taiwan. But the thing is, is it a better choice for my husband?

I've been talking to fellow at UW and Cindy, trying to help my husband to find a possibility in U.S. Nothing had happened since it is still not a easy solution.

Hao's family are no better than strangers for me since they don't offer support. And I don't have a good relationship with my mom-in-law although in the surface things look fine.

And I don't have friend circle here. Coming to a new country is like being totally out of root and after 6 years I'm still not used to it here.

It's funny that when we get together with friends we found everyone has his/her dilemma in life. Some want children but are infertile, some want spouse but meet nobody, and we...we have children and husband but find life difficult...:)

It's ok. We will support each other, don't we?

love,




> Dear (Singapore):
>
> cindy told me about your visit. your life sounds
> so wonderful to me. after koksun finishes his phd i
> will see if i can have your kind of life. i don't
> like working full-time at all. two kids makes the
> financial responsibilities much heavier
>
> i think 2 kids and one job are too much for me.
> it's really not amazing. i'm worried about my health
> and my back hurt a lot. we didn't plan for the baby
> and now we're just trying to do everything we can.
> my mother in law is here to help since the baby was
> born, but she can create some problems too. so far
> our winter break has been full of kids' different
> cold and infections... it's hard! i really like kids
> but i think it's not easy.
>
> wish you and your family a wonderful 2007,
> Arizona